WHO IS A SLAY QUEEN?
A slay queen is a girl with brains & not the one with heavy make up on. She is not the one who seeks for attention on social media. She is the one who uses tenses correctly and appropriately. Not the one that has to shorten every word because she doesn't know how to spell.
She is a girl with a skill...
She is the girl who respects her relationship or marriage. She is never heard but seen . You know her from what she does and not what she says.
She is not the most expensively dressed but she is the most decently dressed. A slay queen respects the sanity of womanhood. She carries herself with much dignity.
Having so many likes on your pictures doesnt make you a slay queen, wearing heavy makeups doesn't make you a slay queen, looking like a flower girl, a dog or a polio victim doesn't make you a slay queen either. Most of these so called Snapchat/IG girls are empty inside. They keep on regretting a lot about their past but pretend to be happy outside their home.
Stop boasting about the number of men that want you, stop boasting about the number of likes/ reactions you get on your pictures, stop boasting about the number of followers you have on IG, Twitter, Facebook, Snapchat et al. Remember that cheap articles have more buyers. Build yourself into the woman that people will always respect and admire.
Never follow the crowd but be yourself. Be bold but humble, be Godly, be hard working, respect
your relationship or marriage, be ambitious
but contented, dont make men your priority
in life but build yourself into the woman that
men will always want to take home to their
mama , not the one they only want to take to
hotels and clubs. Don't allow the number of likes, reactions and followers on your social media platform validate your existence.
Trust me, if you just trap a man with your body, he will go one day because more pretty girls are becoming adults on a daily basis. Let men fall for your personality and not your bedmatics.
No, I'm not saying being trendy is trashy, but do you also slay in your academics? Did your boobs get you grades or your brains? Having a selling point is good, but let that selling point be that which can never go out of fashion. Let it be something that will always attract the right kind of people with corresponding attitudes to you. Chicago's will not save you from shame wen you fall from fame. cheap flower girl dresses

# Nchimunya Belia Miyanda
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